When one thinks about Valentine’s Day, chocolate, roses, and candy hearts come to mind. But are those universal themes? Let’s explore how Valentine’s Day is celebrated in the Nordic countries to peek into other traditions.

In Denmark, it is common for loved ones to exchange white flowers called Snowdrops. Poetry is also used on Valentine’s Day but in the form of funny love notes, called gækkebrev. The catch is that the sender does not sign with their name, but instead uses a series of dots to represent each letter in their name. It is said if the recipient guesses who sent it, they will receive an egg from the sender on Easter. If they are incorrect, they owe an egg.

There might not be a more romantic place to spend Valentine’s Day than in a Finnish sauna. However, Valentine’s Day isn’t just about the couples in Finland. It is known as Ystävänpäivä and is all about friendship. The main objective of this special day in Finland is to show appreciation to your friends and loved ones. A beautiful way to ensure that everyone feels loved.

Alla hjärtans dag is what Valentine’s Day is called in Sweden and it translates to “the day of all hearts.” Sweets are a common theme on this day as candies and pastries are exchanged. The most common candy received is jelly hearts. Sweden has also taken influence from America in that rose sales skyrocket on Valentine’s Day.

Norway celebrates Valentine’s Day in a similar manner, but to a lesser degree. It is referred to as Valentinsdagen or Alle Hjerters Dag. Norwegians place more importance on experiences than gifts for Valentine’s Day. It is common for loved ones to share a unique outing, enjoying nature and the beautiful Norwegian landscape.

Iceland on the other hand celebrates quite differently. In fact, Valentine’s Day isn’t really celebrated on February 14th. They have two other special days to celebrate love, called Konudagur and Bóndadagur (Wife’s Day and Husband’s Day). One is celebrated in January, while the other is on the 23rd of February. They do, however, share the theme of flowers. The Northern Lights in Iceland during February make it a very magical place to celebrate love.

As is evident by the traditions above, love and friendship remain at the forefront. If you’re looking for new ways to mark the holiday, take inspiration from the Nordic countries. Just remember that regardless of the date, it is always fitting to spread love.